I agree find a time and contact the other midwife. If this one is new to practice she needs to learn how to be more welcoming and comforting to all patients and needs a senior to help her along it sounds like. If you speak up hopefully the old midwife will talk to her in general terms and she can learn and grow from this. Sorry he made you feel bad and hope you feel better soon.
Heidi ~ Catholic loving wife to Tom and mama to my thomas, david, annemarie, adelaide and a new one coming this October, always remembering our 3 angels