Snap diapers really helped us with this problem. Once she was old enough to conquer the snaps she was also old enough to be reasoned with, thank goodness. It was definitely a problem with the Velcro because she didn't like having poop on her o she would immediately take of her diaper and make a huge mess. at least it made potty training pretty effortless though.
Alanna is Mama to DD Sequoia (8/8/07), DS Callum (12/12/12) DKitties Syd & Emily (4/4/03)