I second that video monitors help so much. I swear I just stared at her sleeping for the first few nights.
Even now, I am constantly looking. We just switched to a toddler bed and I watch watch watch to make sure she isn't falling out.
They give so much peace of mind.
SAHM to Magnolia May (09/10) and Luke Russett (04/13) and wife and best friend to my airman.