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Old 05-16-2012, 02:05 PM   #81
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Re: What we wish you knew about pregnancy loss

These words are so true. We lost a baby 10 days ago and my heart is just broken. I didn't tell work specifically what was going on because I never announced my pregnancy at work (long story about that one!). Then at a meeting on my second day back from medical leave my dep. head was being SO pushy about WHY I was gone. I got really mad, lost my cool and said loudly that my baby died in the 2nd trimester and did she have any more questions for me?! Needless to say she felt really bad for pushing me but I would add to that list that if you are a co-worker and a woman goes on medical leave for 2 weeks and is of child bearing age don't ask questions. I certainly did not want to share and for good reason because now everyone is looking at me like I am broken.
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