Re: Common mistakes after divorce.
getting things in writing. my XH was all nice when we separated and was like, sure I will pay for you to declare bankruptsy, you will of course still homeschool and be in charge of their health care......so all we had in writing (we did our divorce ourselves online) was that we had 50/50 joint custody....fast forward to a few months after the separation, he met someone and all the sudden, the following year, the kids were in school, he started taking them to different doctors and not paying for alternative care, etc and not paying for me to declare....stuff that really messed me up. I wish I had gotten that stuff in writing. Like I said, it was VERY amiable when we were the only 2 involved, but once she came into the pic, he was all about listening to her. Now, 4 yrs later, it's finally better.
Jul, Mama to 1/2 dozen boys; and been doing those "off-beat" parenting things way before they were cool and learning more each day!