I just moved from floral park ny because of divorce.... I'm originally from nyack ny. Floral park is long island, nassau county. There are nice dog parks, town pools, and I was a teacher for the fp elementary school and my older daughter went there for 3 years.
I recommend looking in nassau county long island so you are not living in NYC, not in the NYC DOE school system, and your husband isn't paying NYC income tax on top of ny tax. I am back in rockland and still only 40 min from where we lived in floral park and even less to parts of queens.... And where I am now is considered the suburbs.... More land, trees, parks.... You might be interested over here too! Pm me if I can help anymore.... I'll give u my email and phone number if u want it!