Re: Parenting the 5 year old attitude *update in op*
I'd call them and see whose style and personality you like best. Either one would be fine but you want to see who has a similar parenting style (or in terms of can work with yours) and who can best work with kids.
Could she just be having a tuff time due to the move?
Mom to my wonderfully sweet toddler who is the joy of our lives.