Re: Need support advice
I think the most important thing is to remember their losses and acknowledge them. Doing/saying nothing can actually be a little hurtful sometimes. If you know the dates of the m/c or due dates, send her a card around that time. if you have the cash, maybe even buying a piece of remembrance jewelry or a willow tree angel figurine?
also you can just talk with her about your feelings. Let her know you want to be there for her, but don't want to hurt her with your own pregnancy. Let her guide you on how to handle things.
-Kate SAHM to John 12/31/07, Grace 10/15/09, Jack ^i^ 5/18/12 , and Jane 5/14/13