Re: Help:upset and need advice
I agree, get the test done. But, before that, I think you need to have a real heart to heart with your SO. Do the results matter? Is it just a matter of knowing? Or, is it a matter of, if baby is not his biological child, he's out? While I would also be incredibly hurt, I am sure he is feeling poorly as well. Sure, his timing sucks, but hate to say it, lots of men, just don't get it, not an excuse, just a matter of fact.
If you find out that he just wants to know, then he needs to tell his parents that the two of you are taking all the appropriate steps to know your child's genetics, more for the child's health history than who made her. And either way, he plans to be daddy. Now is the time for him to take care of that conversation. Because, a biological connection doesn't make you a Daddy!
I wish you the best! With your SO and the birth of your first baby!!
~Nichole~ Marine Wife
, momma to 5