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Old 06-03-2012, 10:30 PM   #7
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Re: Need support advice

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Originally Posted by keen1981 View Post
Home cooked meal. Drop it off. Don't stay. Don't linger.


I would also add to let her talk if she brings it up and to find a way to gently tell her about your new pregnancy before she finds out from someone else. I had a m/c and then an infant adoption fell through right after, a friend was afraid to tell me that she was expecting so I found out on Facebook through a comment one of her friends made when she was 6 months along. I felt betrayed and left out but also odd because did she think I would go crazy? Of course I would be happy for her, it would sting, but I would be happy. Give her a few months but don't wait until the 2nd trimester to tell her. It is so sweet that you are being so thoughtful.
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