Re: DD has a "secret mommy"
Originally Posted by Freedom
I would definitely address this with your ex and his girlfriend, promptly. The thing that disturbs me is the fact that these two think it's alright to encourage a child to lie and hide things from her mother. That's not ok, ever.
But, when you talk to him, do it at first just on the basis that lying and asking your DD to lie is flat out wrong. Don't throw in the stuff about C/S scars, and giving birth and such because if he is a jerk he will focus on that and you will just be a jealous person in his eyes, with a position of no merit. Go with the strong argument and just factually state that it is super wrong to tell her to lie. You will get farther that way.
Mama to B and E, Wife to E
Parenting with Hugs and Terror since 2011