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Old 06-20-2012, 02:19 PM   #24
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Re: DD has a "secret mommy"

Originally Posted by Sha-nanagins View Post
And if you aren't doing it yet, start documenting things like this now. The bolded above is evidence of an emotionally abusive statement, and an attempt at alienation of affection. If it's a one-time "boy I really shouldn't have said that" thing, OK. But if it's a pattern, you may have legal recourse.
This. Get a notebook. Start recording the date, what was said, and how it came up. Write down a summary of the conversations you have with your ex about these things as well. Keep/print out any e-mails discussing these subjects. Hopefully, you will never have to use the records, but just in case his behavior continues and it does start to hurt your daughter, you will have a history of what was said.
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