Re: I should just stop reading fb posts :(
It may not be as bad as it seems.. people tend to embellish things on FB. He may not be crying endlessly for 3 days straight, but just little moments here and there where she wants a break and is trying to "train" him to self soothe.
The point is, we just don't know. You see them several times a week, you will see if the baby looks happy and well adjusted or not, until you see evidence of a non-thriving baby, I wouldn't judge just yet.