Re: How did you know you wanted 3?
I always said either 2 or 4 like several pp's.
We just couldn't make up our mind about #3, so we gave it one month of not preventing, and then I was going to start the pill.
Lo and behold, we are having 3 children.
I did know as soon as I saw the positive test though that we would not be having 4. So at least I feel like that decision is made.