Re: PA and DE mommas.
Welcome (soon) to the area. I'm in Claymont, DE which is just north of Wilmington and right over the border in PA. I work from home as an online instructor so can't help with the work question. I think the cloth diaper store would be awesome. Are you thinking online or brick and mortar? There is only one closeby in PA that I am aware of and I think it is run out of a home.
When are you moving?