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Old 07-08-2012, 08:23 AM   #18
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Angry Re: Help! dd sobs when she sees grandparents

Originally Posted by lissa~K View Post
Personally I think it sounds cruel to forcibly subject an infant to people who clearly upset her. I'm not suggesting avoiding them, but increased visitation simply to "train" her out of her fear doesn't seem fair to her. It sounds like your DH is hurt because they are his parents, but I say suck it up (sorry!). Any of my children that have disliked relatives have gotten over it with age and I believe that your daughter will as well.
Hee hee, I tended to not think it was such a big deal, but everyone else did and so I want to address the concerns they have. I am not comfortable forcing her to interact with them, because I think it will have thebopposite effect. Instead of getting happy and used to them, she will be upset and have a negative association.
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