Re: Devastated, but continuing with you ladies...loss trigger
So sorry you are going through this. Many prayers. As a resolve through sharing counselor. I wanted to suggest a few things.
#1 http://www.nowilaymedowntosleep.org/ Look for a photographer near you. They are professional photographers who volunteer their time to give families like yours memories for a lifetime. They often times will do a free pregnancy shoot for someone in your situation too!!
#2 Hobby Lobby, etc sell hand and foot mold kits. These are really nice to have little hand and foot molds to keep forever.
#3 With Sculpy clay you can make really cool hand print/foot prints.
#4 Talk to the nurse manager at whatever hospital you will be using in advance and let them know what you want and don't want done in advance. This way they will be prepared for you and your family when the time comes.
#5 Find a resolve through sharing group or a compassionate friends group to attend. It really is helpful to find other people who have been where you are now. http://www.compassionatefriends.org/home.aspx
Again, many prayers to you and your family and if you have any questions I am happy to chat with you.
wife to Doc since 99, SAHM to Alexander 00,Nathaniel 02, Zachariah 04, Benjamin 07, Christopher 09, Grace 11 and Sophia Jane 10/12.
home waterbirth and NOCIRC!!