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Old 07-16-2012, 01:55 PM   #39
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Re: Baby is here.

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Originally Posted by Beth. View Post
This is actually a really good thing. Your baby's bmom has an open(ish) case with CPS, dad doesn't. What if mom would TPR and dad decides he wants the baby? At least if mom's rights are in place until you get dad's TPR, baby will be safe.

I've been watching a situation on adoption.com that mom's rights were terminated, but not dad's. The family is now facing returning the baby to her father. The agency we worked with never TPR's a mom's rights without doing dad's at the same time (or before). It can get really messy because in most states dad's have equal rights to mom.

Hang in there. Also, baby won't know if you're faking it ... fake it until you make it in the attachment department.
this is basically my motto for life in general.
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