Re: I know this has been discussed a million times.
I agree, if you could convince him to allow your son to make such decision in the future I think it would be fair; after all it is his life and body. If we had a boy with the current pregnancy that would've been our decision. I know few of my friends that circ'd in adult life. Whatever the reason, I do feel it should be left up to your son.
Why cut off or do something when our natural body was made the way it was.
All I remember when I was hospitalized around 9 for my asthma was hearing the blood curling scream of a baby boy where I later found out he was being circumcised. Made my stomach turn thinking about it. Poor boy was crying for hours I remember.