Re: I know this has been discussed a million times.
I have three boys all intact. DH is intact but secretly wishes they would've circ'ed him. He left it up to me as well. At the hospital they explained how they would do it. I just couldn't go through it after learning they would be strapping him down with his little arms sticking out and then taking a knife to his tiny penis. =( Hopefully you can come to a decision you both agree on mama. Whatever is best for your little one in your situation. Hugs to you.
Alex - Mama to three kiddos!