Re: Reassure me daycare is ok!
only read the OP.
Two thoughts: Daycare is probably a better option for her at this point anyways. She's getting old enough to start interacting with other children, playing, etc. So, while it's nice that she had one-on-one for her baby time, this should be fun for her.
Second thought: yes, that is bad for a marriage. Your marriage is important. That is how my parents did it. They had no choice as they had no funds for babysitters or daycare. I truly believe their marriage suffered. Even though they stayed together for somewhere around 30 yrs, it did finally sour. Without the kids in the house, they hadn't really worked on their own relationship enough and well.. I just think it contributed.
SAHM to Magnolia May (09/10), Luke Russett (04/13) and expecting 11/16. Wife and best friend to my airman.