I want to make sure I'm understanding you. You join a new group and shortly after get into a posting war with the owner/moderator to the point that you call her a name and pick on her for having more money.
Have you considered that there was more than one mean mommy in this situation?
I usually deal with mean mommies by avoiding them at all costs.
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