I wouldn't like getting my posts deleted. But if I felt that she was doing it to bully me or push me out I would leave because who wants to be around that nonsense. But if she owned/moderated the list she can do what she wants.
I tell you though I think she gave you more than a fair shot. If she deleted a couple of your posts and you just got more assertive with your posts what option did she have?
But I hear that you thought she was controlling.
Did you at least connect with any of the moms?
The cliquey mom group thing seems to be universal. I've found it in every state I've lived in. I would join and lay low until I got things figured out and then I would figure out who was there to make friends and who was there to relive high school. I would just get the info. from the nice moms and go from there.
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