Re: what to do, oh what to do!
Well, l say leave it packed until I come up in a month and I'll help you figure that part out. :-D
Personally, I would go with Tapestry. I know it's a solid curriculum, it allows y'all the flexibility you want, and I know there's nothing questionable in it, as I've known several families who have used it. Do group activities where possible, and leave it at that. If the girls want to do band, they should be able to do so at the public school. Dan and Glenda used to take Melissa up to Ionia for band.