Re: just a vent - I'm never going to sleep again!
I make my DH help. DD will want to eat if I try to rock her to sleep... but she just falls asleep in 2 minutes if DH rocks her. (She also sleeps much better in her own crib than our bed. In our bed...It was too easy for her to nurse. In her bed... she has learned to settle herself and go back to sleep. She wakes up less but it took a few weeks to change her patterns)