I have had both and have no preference.
My peri is male and I like him, and I had a OB with my son who was female and she was great too. I am back to just my peri now and so a male will deliver this baby. My re is a male as well.
- Wife since 12/2003
with 5 children - 3 waiting for me in heaven
, and 2 delighting me everyday
! Lymphoma survivor and mother to baby born post pelvic radiation!