Have you given a good carrier a shot? My first was 24lb at 4 months, I'm relatively petite with chronic pain issues, and it was still LOADS easier for me to use a carrier than to hold him in my arms.
Originally Posted by pottermomma
Lol yeah I would prefer more but I have nothing to compare him to so I wanted to ask. Thanks ladies. And I would baby wear but he's huge (12lb or more and 23") so it is hard on me because I'm pretty small or I would.
I don't mean this to say "look how tough I am," just that if you've never tried a good carrier, I think you'll be surprised.
Robbyn, SAHM to Silas, 4/3/09 and Griffin, 3/23/12