Thank you so much everyone! I really appreciate the responses/help.
I have a Moby and I liked it when he was super little but now it hurts my shoulders and always seems to be seeing too much when I walk around. I guess I need to look into a new carrier.
I'm defiantly going to check those books out. I am not good at reading his cues I don't think so I'll have to look into tips.
Married since 08
Became parents 6.13.12
And again 3.24.14