My DH and I lived a very similar schedule when our oldest was 4 and our then youngest was 9 months. He worked nights, got home around 7am to two already awake kids at which time I left for class (was in nursing school). He would nap when they napped during the day, I would get home at 3ish at which time he would go to bed until he had to get up around 9 to go to work. I would study either when the kids went to bed or get up at 4 am to study before the day started all over. It was an exhausting 2 years and not healthy for us or our marriage.
[SIZE="3"]Married to Mike~ Proud mama to Mackenzie (13),
Madelynn (9) ,Marleigh (25months), and Noah (11months) We are a