I always hated the AP label, so I never applied it to myself. I hate that the term implies that I am unattached from my children simply because I put them in a crib or a stroller, or any other thing in the AP handbook. I parent by doing what I feel is right. We sleep trained both kids because I couldn't function during the day after waking every 45 minutes. Both kids hate cosleeping and room sharing. I BF for as long as possible, and don't use bottles, but only because I'm lazy and don't want to pump.
One thing that have changed since becoming a parent is thatim much more "crunchy" than I thought I'd be.
Amanda - happily married wife to N
and mother to B