Re: who's getting U/S who's deciling?
We're going to get an ultrasound at 20 weeks. I was a little annoyed at my OB's office because they mixed up the paperwork for the referral from my family doctor and they didn't call me. I ended up calling them and I've only seen the OB once, which was at the end of my 1st trimester.
I want to get the ultrasound to rule out any defects or problems with the fetus, though I wish I'd gotten it done sooner, as I worry that there might be something *really* wrong and the pregnancy might need to be terminated, which would be an easier choice to make at 8 weeks instead of 20 weeks.
I know I'm probably worried about nothing and the baby is probably fine, but the less I know about something, the more I worry!