Been there, done that. Five kids later I'm still learning about parenting. Each kid brings something new to the table. I have AP leanings but would probably get kicked out of an AP group.
I've mellowed. Ten years ago I would have been so sad if i had a friend that wanted to use a crib. I look back and laugh at myself.
If nothing else my mistakes keep me humble.
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