We've been to court several times already. About 18 months ago the judge ordered him to complete a local employment program. He refused in the beginning..it drug on for almost 8 months...he eventually said he'd complete the class. I have no idea if he did. Either way it didn't help him find a job.
My biggest concern is him being able to drop the support because he chooses not work, not because he can't work. I don't think it would be fair to allow the support to be lowered or dropped because he'd rather sit home all day working on his cars.
I'm just extremely frustrated with the situation.