Re: Developmental Delays in someone else's child? Need advice.
Can you maybe find an opportunity to get her and her DS around other children his age? I would imagine that if she is not with him most of the time and she doesn't have experience with other children, she may not even know it's not within the normal range of behaviour. Why is it that they don't see a Ped. Unless they are sick my children only see theirs once a year but we did do monthly visits the first year. I think they are really helpful in that several things(like my DS's vision problems) were caught early and able to be treated. Did they take him to be evaluated initially when he was first adopted? Maybe your DH can talk to the father about getting an evaluation.
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