Re: If you had to choose one... and why?
Flip! I pad fold flats in flips. The fit is trim, they wash and rinse well and dry super fast. For heavier wetting to es I use an organic flip insert. I found that the suedecloth on the pockets irritated my ds over time, held odors, I didn't like stuffing and I don't use microfiber.
Stephanie wife to Thomas & mom to DD Avery '99, DD Ellison '04, DS Bennett'08, & DS Sullivan 3/11/11