Re: DH gets the V tomorrow...
I had the tubal done after #4. I still have dreams that I want more and am resentful I had it done. I know 4 is enough and we have children from 25 to 4 months (DHs are 25 and 17 and mine is 15, and ours are 4, 3, and 4 mos). We now want time for us, but I keep thinking I will want more. I am 38 in Oct and do not need more and cannot afford more, so I made the right choice. I think most women are just programed buy high estrogen to feel this way.