Re: New here :)
Who knows what it will take for him to hit bottom and truly give that up. I'm glad you are getting space from him. Already too much of your life has been spent worrying about him, taking care of him, or bailing him out of situations. I'm not all that non-traditional either. I love coming on here though since there is absolutely no judgement on that. Will definitely send some good thoughts your way.
Suzi, working mama to my ODS(2004),
and married to the love of my life