Re: So frustrated and out of ideas with POOP!
TMI but what is the consistency of her poop? I would assume it's not balled up and hard if it makes that much of a mess. But she could have a little constipation and that will cause her poop to sort of slide out when she's relaxed. She's still young so this may not be the issue but it is something to consider especially when she was doing well and is suddenly not. Maybe increase her intake of fiber foods like pears or prunes or juice to help loosen her stools if they are firm and reduce bananas, rice and breads.
It be more work but might be more comfortable to her to be cleaned in the bathtub instead of wipes. Good luck!
SAHM to two rowdy boys