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Old 08-31-2012, 05:18 PM   #9
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Re: Living together before marriage. Yay or nay?

Originally Posted by rumblepurr View Post
Will he do a commitment ceremony or an engagement? It doesn't have to be legal. It's an exchange of vows that you write and both sign, or a hand fasting ceremony.
I don't think so. After our chat, I dropped the subject because it still hurts a lot and I think the pregnancy hormones are making me hyper sensitive. I wished he had offered the aforementioned alternatives. That would have reassured me that he is committed and will not walk away like nothing happened (like my ex husband did). He acts as if nothing has happened, and while he is all smiles and hugs, I am worried and stressed out about the future.
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