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Old 08-31-2012, 06:46 PM   #29
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Re: Living together before marriage. Yay or nay?

Originally Posted by rumblepurr View Post
So he does want to marry you! He's down with eloping and your not because you eloped with your ex, and you want a wedding and he's against it because he did that with his ex? Sounds like he wants to marry you just not with the wedding, and you want to marry him and just not elope. Sounds like your both blaming the wedding/elopement as the cause of the problems leading to the divorce, a been there done that scenario.

What ever you decide, it sounds like he is committed enough to marry, even if it's not the venue of your choice.
I hope you are right. But since I said not to eloping, he hasn't brought the topic up again. I fear doing so because another rejection is something I can't take right now.
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