Re: Living together before marriage. Yay or nay?
I was always for it but am not now. My current bf and I moved in 3 years ago. We had had both been married and divorced before. We had only been dating 9 months when we moved in together. I will avoid the details but there were circumstances that pushed us a little faster. We moved in with my 2 boys and his dd. We planned on getting married but weren't engaged. A year later he moved out. He stayed in the same town and we kept dating. It was hard on me and the kiddos. Not to mention I now have a more expensive house payment and all that crud. We are oddly still together, talking seriously about getting married now. Even though we are both stretched financially we aren't moving in until we are married.
It just depends on who you are. Relationships are sooo hard and I wish you the best at working this out!!! Congrats on the pg!
Suzi, working mama to my ODS(2004),
and married to the love of my life