Re: "I want what you want"
We're in agreement as to how many, but I'm very conflicted as to when to have the next one and dh always just says "whenever you're ready." It is nice, but at the same time, I don't want it to be all my decision because then when it gets hard, it will be all on me 'cause I chose it. I think a lot of women just need to talk things out when we're making decisions, so even if your partners aren't going to make the choice, we want them involved.
Mama to Ada, 7-23-09 and Sylvia, 11-27-13