Thanks for all the replies. For the part I will just "let it go" but I do feel a conversation between dh, myself and her is in order. Our relationship is complicated. I do "know how she is" by this point but that doesn't make her actions acceptable. She has always favored our ODD and each child since has gotten less attention. She does not babysit or help care for our children in anyway. DH has talked to her on many occasions but it's always "poor me, I have it so rough. I'm all alone". I guess only time will tell.
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Madelynn (9) ,Marleigh (25months), and Noah (11months) We are a