I think its fair for parents to not want their child alone with an adult, if that means them being there to be that second adult, they should be authorized to do so.
I also was a victim of child molestation, from a family member (not my father), and I have more reservations about who on a family level and close friends that watch my children than I do with who they have and will intetact with at school.
I am just as worried for my sons as I am my daughter. I feel a heavy responsibilty to keep them safe. My parents nevet knew anything was happening and I wad scaref to tell because it was a family member.
Mama to 4 kiddos
5 angels in my heart always