They probably do creative movement at that age because ballet is incredibly boring while you are learning the basics. Sorry but it is. I took ballet as a young kid. My dd did dance for a year and they did tap and ballet to kids and classical songs but dd was bored so we only did he year. She would probably enjoy it now at 7 but at 3 it bored her.
The only time you should look in your neighbor's bowl is to make sure that they have enough. You don't look in your neighbor's bowl to see if you have as much as them.