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Old 09-17-2012, 12:17 PM   #3
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Re: Advice needed - My son is a bully...

http://www.amazon.com/Just-Kidding-T...s=Just+kidding I've heard good things about this book.

ALso, you can show him the video, and talk about each comment that you are not happy about.

The best thing to say to a kid is "I'm concerned". Not "I can't believe you said...did" Not "We need to talk"... just "I'm concerned" and explain gently why you are concerned about this.

Then if that doesn't change, you can work on the entire group together. Teach the other kids how to shut the bullying down (without reverse bullying) and come down harder on him when you catch him bullying.
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