Odd wears her shoes out faster than anyone else in the house. She has 1 pair of twinkle ties tennis shoes, one plain pair of tennis shoes for gym mainly, a pair if boots, a pair if flip flops, a pair of sandals that strap on, and a pair if dress shoes.
Ds has a pair of stride right tennis shoes (hold up well), a pair of sandals, and a pair of crocs. He also has 2 pairs of Walmart brand croc type shoes that are lightening McQueen but they are moving out a they are getting too small.
The baby I am not sure as I need to purge her show drawer and get rid of he too small.
The only time you should look in your neighbor's bowl is to make sure that they have enough. You don't look in your neighbor's bowl to see if you have as much as them.