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Old 09-18-2012, 01:27 PM   #22
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Re: How do you do playdates?

Originally Posted by Green Decals View Post
That is also part of the problem - we are all free-range parents and time is basically just a thing that passes as the clock spins :-) So, we don't have many "set" schedules, but I have my rhythms and need for mental quiet time!
call it rhythm, call it a schedule - it's the same thing.
I realize you rely on your feelings rather than the clock, but that doesn't change the fact that you can very easily say 'well, we need to go' or 'well, it's time for us to clean up now (if they're at your house)'.

It's just a matter of feeling comfortable enough about your needs that you can assert yourself.

I assure you, your friends likely see you getting stressed out. If anyone is in tune with anyone else, it's pretty obvious when a person is getting distracted and pulled away from the flow of easy conversation. It's better for everyone to have honesty rather than building agitation and distance from people we geniunely like.
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