Does the fact that he sometimes makes eye contact sound like a positive thing? I heard back from his teacher and she is not having problems with him at school. The program at school is very structured and he has done amazing there. He thrives on structure.
Also with the Star Wars obsession most days he can't think/talk of anything else and then we will have a random day where his interest in it is appropriate. Is that typical with Aspergers to have some days where the obsessing is almost absent (its a rare day but it happens)
mama to DS1 5, DS2 3.5
foster mama to DFD 4.5 and DFS 3.5