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Old 09-22-2012, 06:58 AM   #9
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Ok, pardon the comparison, but I read that you said you're having a hard time with the TMI of his physical relationship. I know on the show sister wives, that they do NOT share those details w each other. I'm not, nor have I ever been in a poly relationship but I know that part would consume me. Maybe I'm crazy but the thought of my DH having been w anyone else kills me!
Maybe this is also crazy to suggest but think back on past relationships you've had. I know that I have a lot of love for an ex of mine. He was a great person w many wonderful qualities. Ultimately he wasn't the one for me but I still have love for him, it's a love that has nothing to do nor any impact on the love I have for DH, it's like love for your children, different and special. I hope maybe some part of that helps. Just stay very true to yourself. Relationships are only beneficial to everyone if they are beneficial to the individual
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